You can always spot a caring by the way the always look out for there child including there feelings. But wait Whats this ? Imagine the situation. Child has gone away with dad and now cant find favourite teddy, Daddy being the loving one checks all places he can think it could be. Son says its in the car. We check the car its not there. I suspect its still at moms place we just forgot it. So what do we do ? We call to check if its there, We dont want to collect it. we just want to know where it is and is it safe, Just put a child's mind at rest. So at 8:30 AM we call to ask. Mums in bed and is not going to get up and check for anyone. Such a caring mum.